It does not AMPLIFY either !

Have you seen the hell either? No. Can you see the air? No. Can you see love? No. Can you see any emotions for that matter? No. But that does not make these things non existence? Right? In the same way, whether you want to change a happy married life to a hellish experience depends completely on you and your partner! That does not nullify the concept of "Marriages being made in Heaven". Isn't it?

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huuuuuu... the temperature is rising out here ! I never knew ... bold letters could attract so much of attention !
Truth is always bitter my friend !

Dear Girish, its amusing to find that you are yourself confused and not able to get to the crux of the matter.The discussion is on "Marriages are made in heaven". So why do you want to harp on what happens the next. Please keep yourself focussed on the topic. I am not trying to misguide any one. And for once and all, I am sticking to the statement"Marriages are made into heaven". Is that clear? And a request to you, please stop using this Bold letters. Sorry, my friend, but with all respect to you, if this is the way you had written in the corporate or professional world, you would have surely dug out your own grave. We always look out for a healthy debate and being polite is a part of participating in an healthy discussion. There is a difference between being assertive and being aggressive. Try to be more assertive, not aggressive my friend. Take this from a person who is much senior to you in terms of both age and experience.

what happens rest , is not what we are talking about , right ? We are talking about justification of the freaking quote "marriages are made in heaven". And you , my dear friend,are trying to keep 1 concept in arms and the other in bush ! You say and agree that marriages are made in heaven , but at the same time you say what follows is NOT MADE IN HEAVEN ! My point is , which statement are you trying to justify , the "marriages and heaven....." one , or the "what follows...." one ? You are confused my friend ... you better be firm on your "Verdict", or else , stop miss guiding the thousands who are reading the posts !

WRONG! I have said that "Marriages are made in heaven". But I never said that what follows are also made in heaven. The things that you said are part and parcel of every married life and without these you cannot have a successful married life. C'mon guys, don't you adjust with your parents or siblings or friends? Does that mean that your relationship with them becomes meaningless? Nope! It doesn't! Like all other relationships, a successful married life cannot be without all these factors. But that doesn't have any correlation with marriages not being made in heaven! God gives you his choice of your partner. Now the rest depends on you and your partner whether to continue or leave each other midway!

You are right ! Great !
However , it also does not prove that all of them are happy , either !
And this is about marriages made in heaven ! How many women , do you think , in 70% of Indian population, openly talk about their married life issues ? Its easy to say,and easy to believe, but impossible to implement ! Marriages as you say are made of adjustments, understandings, mutual consents,etc. Remember, these are your words in 1 of the above comments, then how are you so sure that marriages are made in heaven ? Coz if that would had been the case , one would never have had adjustments,compromises, sacrifices,etc. RIGHT ?

But Girish...neither you nor me have any statistics to prove that how many couples are happy or unhappy. The figure you quoted I assume are arbitrary. And my dear friend, when 70% of india's population are living in the rural area how can you take a stand like this that all of them are unhappy? Then the divorces in rural area would have been much higher. Yes, you may say that may be they do not have the legal access or means to come out of marriage, but that doesn't testify that all of them are unhappy. Isn't it?

exceptions... doesn't mean that out 1.3billion people , 100-500 couples are happy, concludes "marriages are made in heaven ".

Sorry Girish, not agreed. I have met real life couples who have stood the test of time despite financial difficulties. Money can't keep your married life happy. Then, divorces would not have been so high in developed countries.

there are exceptions... but its just a fairytale , that marriages are made in heaven ! God won't come helping us , if we have something going wrong due to financial imbalances.
Infact, marriages are made by Finances !

in your case it has proved that marriages are infact made in heaven.

Dear Madhav then please proceed n prove ur point.. i want to see how u prove it... after urs is doen then i wud tell u my stand..

I see some strong words in Surpiya reply. I am sorry if I offended you..i was talking casually..

hehehehehe dont worry girish i wont call u for this silly thing .. i read gopala's post right now.. well to all of u who dont agreee withmy view i would say.. views differ frm person t person n i believe the same wht i said no matter wht all opinions have been presented here.. may b i may sound filmi or childish or whtever.. but it depends u c.......

movies are always stupid and idiotic ! atleast Bollywood "kahani puri filmi hai ! "

hey supriya and girish...nuthin personal..i was just kidding..nuthin serious..if i made mistake sorry.. i am happy to know u became friends..thats really good to have good friends.. but when i read supriya post the first thing came to mind was that stupid idiotic movie..

dude don't say that ... she'll call me 1st thing when she reads this !
We are just good friends !

sounds like DIL TO PAGAL HAI story in real life..

I am writer sweety ... i know it very well ! thanks anyways ! ... however you sound sweet at heart ... but not practical ... the reality is ... marriages are never made in Heaven .. it is all about compromises and adjustments , maturity and understandings, money and materials , etc. Ever man and every woman on planet earth has at least once thought of changing their respective spouses ! There are times when life's ups and downs force people to take harsh decisions .. these are the times when one actually feels of having someone more better and capable then there so-called heaven made spouse. Shadi is always termed as barbadi ! I am not sure about all the sudden changes that happen after marriage .. however as you say , marriages are made in heaven, there would be over a 50% members who would agree to the fact that they are not happy , somewhere deep in the bottom of their heart, with their marriage. This one statement of mine , please note down , will make the readers think twice about their present so-called heavenly made married life !
As far as my relationship was concerned , there wasn't anything called as heavenly relationship , it was a purely need based relation. There are millions of females who relocate for some or the other reason, and require some or the other indirect help from so-called "well-to-do" guys . I was one of them ! Simply the brutal facts of our daily changing society !

Well Girish to ur all WHY's I would answer all was destined to be that way.. or may be those people have done something wrong on their part which they are returning here all itself.. marriages are made in heaven only and u cant deny the fact ... the increase in divorces and infidelity and love sex dhoka is due to change in mentality of people.. but u only looking at negative aspect of the world.. try looking at positive aspect as well.. if there are divorces theer are successful marriages as well.. it may be 1 in 10 but those successful marriages were due to they were made in heaven.. people sometimes marry 2-3 times to find their perfect match which is only made for themselves in heaven by God.. even u were into a live in realtionship.. but that match was not made in heaven so broke off.. but considering mine.. or even my parents the match is made in heaven thats why we are together... hope u get my point!! n one advise to u.. dont write in all BOLD letters.. it shows the other person tht ur very angry whch creates a bad impression.. just a suggestion .. dont mind me!!

IF MARRIAGES ARE MADE IN HEAVEN , THEN WHY ARE THERE INCREASE IN DIVORCES ? WHY IS THERE SO MUCH OF INFIDELITY ? WHY IS THERE SO MUCH OF LOVE SEX AND DHOKA ?

hi supriya how are u
i very well agree with u and i liked the way u have described the things.

aaj nahi toh kaal marna hi hai ... toh marne ke pehle ka ek useless experience hota hai "shadi"....

jab laddoo khavoge tab maloom padega