with what i learnt from past 3 relationships, is that all girls are behind money or either a materialistic guy...? i actually dont get the point here...!girls want rich boyfriends and then look for a perfect husband material , rather a settled guy...what is the meaning of a "settled" guy...does having a 3BHK flat with a car and handsome paying job , makes a guy "settled"...? what if he's got all that from his forefathers and doesnt have identity if his own...no status/dignity/pride...i am a bit confused about this double-standard females who are not satisfied with one guy (either sexually/financially) ... what the psychology behind this behavior ???

I am a male, and I am fine with girls chasing money/fame. We also chase the best girls only. Its survival of the fittest. If you don't have money, get that first.

With due respect Mr. Girish you are again generalizing the issue. If you found a mean girl you just start accusing the whole gender into same category of selfish people. Forgetting the goodness every other woman around you, be your sister, your mother, your sister-in-law, you female best friend. Can you say that these people are as selfish too. They are always by your side, not because of money of course. And if you got the same experience from last 3 relation why don't gain knowledge from it. Why you again and again bump into one selfish girl after another. Good things, bad things are part of our life. But if Bad didn't exist we never knew what is good. May be you were dumped by these girls so that you get a bit more cautious while choose a better life partner, who will love you not your money. So stop sulking and move on in your life and enjoy it.

Even I am confused. Not only we I guess many men like us are. I also cannot conclude anything. But my life, broken friendship ( which I hoped for life long relationship ) has taught me few things. ..either in India or outside india..gals will see whether boy has his own transportation like bike or car...if yes then they will start considering you ..if not there is no way they will even consider you...but they will use u..when ever they need help infact want work done..they come to you..after that they will not even tell you what is the output of thet work...if you pass first round then they will see money. For then settled means...monthly constant house income, take them outside, buying gifts, flirting, and be like a bafoon..now a days gals wanna have romantic.. rick boy friends,,, and they are proud if they use EX word..and when comes to husband they look for rich and pure man..

I am also confused from your narration' your past three experiences'. you are mistaken to conclude so fast ,girls are also having equal right to have their experiences.Sorry ! but a suggestion ,'look in to yourself what do you lack ! At least three girls were attracted towards you !

i also agreed at certain extent with Mr. Prashant view but not totally. If a person got a name of God, it does not means that s/he is god, to become a god one have to do/work like a god.

Girish its right that every hand not has equal fingers..in this way all girls in girls community are equal. I may understand that ur experience and observation was not good for the girl but it does not means that it become fact/s of life.

My personal experience was opposite to you....i always got a friend/s who never become my friend due to my money, respect etc...its never came as obstacle in my life. even i got one of my friend who is more intelligent, rich or we can that she is more rich then me in every sphere....so don't make negative thought for girls. It might u had bad luck for you...but it might it possible that u will get good one according to you......

Girish at certain extent you are also right about the behaviour and the thinking of girls....but not all girl are same...

My dear believe in it that "Every Cloud has a Silver Line......always try to see that silver line instead of dark clouds.

i agree with Prashant but was it not a female because of whom we are here !!! EVE wa the one who forced adam to eat the apple which god had asked not to eat.....

Dear Friend, Have ever heard words, POVERTY and SECURITY? I understand MOST girls are wise enough to understand the reality of life. Now a days girls don't ONLY use HEART but more than that they use HEAD also. So simple to understand if you have your .....

Negative friend.it would have happen with you but in real its not true.my father and maa did love marriage but when my maa came in my papa"s life my papa was nothing.now my papa is a big enterpreneur and have got everything all because of my maa"s love and co:operation.see about me as a son of a succesfull business man i choosed indian navy and now a days i am in a relationship with a girl who is not from a rich family but rich by heart.she herself is a teacher and dont love me because of my papas money because i have a dignity and self respect of my own.so moral of the story is that friend

You must not tell that girls are cheaters, dont tell that any women is sexually not satisfied with one guy but you must say that we guys are not sexually not satisfied with one girl or women. so thinkm twice before saying about women because you are here because of a women. aur itihas gawah hai jab bhi auraton kr chritra par ungli uthi hai ungli uthane waale ka vinash ho gaya hai.so my dear friend dont blame the girls blame yourself.i understand that now a days some girls are doing these things but u must not blame all the women community. think that your mother and sister is a women .sorry if i have hurt you. take care friend and i will pray to god that next time when u are in a relationship u must get a honest girl.again take care friend.