Opinion Poll
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will casual sex harm me ?
hey guys i am a very sexually active person. usually indulge in casual sex and one night stands, one of my friends in U.S sent me a study that said casual sex harms damages people a lot. On the contrary i think casual sex keeps me happy and going...
What do u guys think ?
If u r committed then yes, I also have very high adrenaline for sex dats y i am single.
scott burke i see your statment .i m impresed by u. i m 24 from india, can i with u.
good luck
and conservation of energy-clock starts now for six months .All the best for opting new option if u do so,
dear friend
Sex is the power house in the human body, we should be able to transform the energy in other forms, in spite of physically releasing it by intercourse. Till date as u said u enjoyed releasing of energy.Kindly try to conserve the energy and compare the both.By urself u will stop the releasing it
Hi Scott, whatever makes you happy is good for you.
The reason why the study says it's harms more than doing good, because there is not emotions, love, stability there. Yes the physical release is the thng making you feel good, but eventually you'll want to have a parter in your life, who loves you and vice versa, but you won't be able to cope with the demands of being with only one person for the rest of your life.
Rightly said!!
depends people to people and culture to culture. Sex in any form it is good. But enjoy with a safe sex.
casual sex is shit and filthy... dance with many sleep with one ... this is anytime better than one night stand ...! and ha ... one partner full freedom to try any new position (if both agree) !!!!
well casual sex in India could be trouble now that Delhi high court rules that sex before wedding is rape. guys beware girls can take advantage of this. secondly girls you talk about having sex without emotionally getting involved, its obvious you havent had good sex so far, try to keep emotions out of it when you've been with a guy who knows what he's doing. Sex is an art and not everyone is good at it, it takes energy, healthy diet, workout and excercise to be able to hit the right spots. Girls if you need casual sex and find your self hard to commit no matter how good the guy is, well you seem to have a problem of being a slut. now casual sex may be good with your partner but lets not call it casual sex because it wont be casual anymore once one of you end up cheating or refuses to have a long term relationship.
where did u get that news from boss ? Please send me the link where you read that please ... i will get something to write !
Casual sex is not bad if within limit ,with hygiene and with approval of both without disturbing related people ,no emotional involvment guilt pangs ,it has to be with like minded people in confidence for satisfaction of both ,it helps to concentrate and better energy utiliozation without remarriage ./need of marriage can be done away with .
If one can have sex without getting emotionally involved and also with the necessary protection it is fine. It does not matter if you are single or committed or married, divorced....till the time u remember the golden rule. No emotional attachment and sufficient protection. It could be just a way to have a good time. Most people do the same but when it comes to advising they will like to say all good things. I suggest go ahead and have fun till the time it does not have a negative impact on you.
Sex is important in life. Casual sex is not harmful if we indulge in safe method. Marriage is a commitment between men and women. But today how much % is truthful. As we advance in life, our demand changes and we hardly stick to principles. Today we spend more time in office or with laptops. Very little time to spend with family or with your Wife. Many try to have sex with co workers or with likeminded friends. This is one reason divorce and remarriage is increasing. Today we have freedom and loads of reasons to get away from home.
I am big fan of sex . However, casual sex is harmful as for start there is risk of sexually transmitted diseases. Most dangerous risks are emotional distress, social inactiveness, relationship blunders and depression. Excessive sexual drives can be triggered under stress or depression.. During sex chemical released in our brain makes us happy temperorily but excessive choke n stroke phenomena can lead to OCD. Scott Burke you are lonely which is making you perverted, best is get married or get rid of that rattling snake.
The damage it can cause is emotionally and it is by guilt....you may say now you are not committed and have them..but what if later you get committed and you will come to know that your partner had so many as youa re doing now...are you able to accept it...what about same thing while you get married...are you able to take it..just ask to yourself and you will get answer...please donot use single status and uncommitment as a reason for now...in such cases we also think about future..
there can be a guilt factor, if u r cheating on a partner, but i dont really think it can cause emotional damage
Likeminded people has not emotional feelings dear
heyya... you seem like a really cool lady!!! appreciate the open-mindedness! but coming back to the subject - NO, i dont think theres any damaging effect through casual sex. on the contrary, i believe its always the best form of relationships to have, provided both partners are aware, and approving. it reduces the responsibility on one's shoulders, thanks to which he/she can focus on things like work and jobs...
there can be a guilt factor, if u r cheating on a partner, but i dont really think it can cause emotional damage
dear scott, i dont think so, in case you are committed and indulging in casual sex outside then it might, but otherwise i don't really think so
Then what abt thios...now he is not into relationship.. now he will have it... later will be in and may marry someone.. then what... according to you it will not harm him/her.. but what if partner comes to know .. what if.. it will harm him unless his partner is also like him/her open minded... sex is not one time thing or in this situation thing.. it is life time thing.. i donot know why people give selfish self centered reasons and justify it..
Yea i agree , infact i think flings keep you charged and refreshed :)


