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Dear friends, when I first stepped in the house of Bigg Boss, little did I know that I would be a soft target for nomination. As a person, I’m an introvert. I like to keep to myself. I know that the real me is quite contrary to my brand image. When I was nominated for the first time, I was shocked. I thought that the house inmates must have randomly picked my name without having any valid reason for my nomination. Initially, I could not relate to the female house inmates. Mostly they would talk about their families. And I had nothing to say about my family. May be because I have been living alone since I was a teenager.
When I realized that I wasn’t getting positive vibes from the ladies of the house, I turned to the men. I made friends with Kamal & Vindoo because I found them incredibly hilarious.
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Live Chat with Sherlyn Chopra
Fresh from Bigg Boss's house, Sherlyn is came on a chat session with her fans.
Friday, 6 November 2009,
4 PM till 5 PM
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Live Chat with Sherlyn Chopra
Fresh from Bigg Boss's house, Sherlyn is came on a chat session with her fans.
Friday, 6 November 2009,
4 PM till 5 PM
Read full transcript
** itimes regularly organises live chat sessions with experts and celebrities. Log on to itimes to chat with your favourite one.
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During the first two weeks, I indulged in gossip. I would make mockery of the character traits of the inmates, whom I didn’t get along well with. When I was nominated for the second time, I had an emotional breakdown, as I felt rejected and misunderstood.
I had asked Poonamji to explain to me as to why the ladies in the house were judgemental toward me. She explained to me that if I mingled with them and talked to them more often, probably they would not have felt that way. Also, Poonamji said that I would have to express my love to the house inmates to be loved by all of them. After this heart-felt conversation with Poonamji, I decided to go out of my way to love the people in the house. And so, I started treating people with kindness and gentleness.
I derive great pleasure from doing domestic work. Whenever I found the house dirty, I would start cleaning and sweeping the entire house - the kitchen area, the dining area, the living area, girls’ bedroom and even boys’ bedroom.
The people in the house began to see changes in my behaviour and attitude. I truly hoped they would change their pre-conceived notions about me. But that didn’t happen.
I was nominated again for the third time.This time, I tried to analyze harder as to where I was going wrong. I then thought that perhaps the house inmates needed some more time to understand me. I was very confident that sooner or later the house inmates would stop nominating me.
But history repeated itself. I was nominated again for the fourth time. I just could not understand what was going wrong.
Later, on the day of eviction I was told by all the participants that I was made a scapegoat. They said that they chose to nominate me continuously as they had no other option. It was after I met Amitji on Aakhri Salaam that I got to know the true reasons for my nomination.
Most of the house inmates called me a fake person. They strongly felt that the change in my behaviour and attitude was superficial and not genuine. I could not control my tears, when I realized what a poor opinion they had of me.
Now that I’m out of the house of Bigg Boss, I feel, I was a misfit in the house, as I didn’t want to play games with human emotions. I didn’t want to be part of conversations that break the human spirit.
The experience from day one till the end of my journey was more or less like a roller coaster ride. I got to re-discover myself. And I’m glad that I connected with my inner-self.
The icing on the cake was when Amitji restored peace between my mother and me. However, I feel unless my mother, my sister, and I analyze the root cause of the animosity and the differences between us, the patch up will be very superficial.
The people in the house began to see changes in my behaviour and attitude. I truly hoped they would change their pre-conceived notions about me. But that didn’t happen.
I was nominated again for the third time.This time, I tried to analyze harder as to where I was going wrong. I then thought that perhaps the house inmates needed some more time to understand me. I was very confident that sooner or later the house inmates would stop nominating me.
But history repeated itself. I was nominated again for the fourth time. I just could not understand what was going wrong.
Later, on the day of eviction I was told by all the participants that I was made a scapegoat. They said that they chose to nominate me continuously as they had no other option. It was after I met Amitji on Aakhri Salaam that I got to know the true reasons for my nomination.
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Most of the house inmates called me a fake person. They strongly felt that the change in my behaviour and attitude was superficial and not genuine. I could not control my tears, when I realized what a poor opinion they had of me.
Now that I’m out of the house of Bigg Boss, I feel, I was a misfit in the house, as I didn’t want to play games with human emotions. I didn’t want to be part of conversations that break the human spirit.
The experience from day one till the end of my journey was more or less like a roller coaster ride. I got to re-discover myself. And I’m glad that I connected with my inner-self.
The icing on the cake was when Amitji restored peace between my mother and me. However, I feel unless my mother, my sister, and I analyze the root cause of the animosity and the differences between us, the patch up will be very superficial.
Posted by Sherlyn Chopra in Celebrity blogs on Wed, 04 Nov, 2009
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Rohit Khurana: hey sherlyn... i love you.... you are so sexy... check out www.kitesmovie.co.in .. even barbara mori is looking nothing infront of you!!!! love you.. Happy New yr to you... hope to see you in many movies in 2010...
Posted on Tue, 29 Dec, 2009 Report abuse
Hareesh Raao:
Now that I’m out of the house of Bigg Boss, I feel, I was a misfit in the house, as I didn’t want to play games with human emotions. I didn’t want to be part of conversations that break the human spirit.
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Really??? So why on earth did you even participate in it madam? Sour grapes eh? And its not that you didnt want to be a part of tht crap but u were just kicked out by those losers.. basically a bunch of good for nothing attention seeking idiots masquarading as celebrities...
n seriously ur such a hypocrite. in one forum u say u dont want to be a part of "conversations" tht break human spirit n in another u say u like sach ka saamna n other crap versions. whats wrong with u baby? instead of getting breast implants and butt implants why dont u get a brain implant? loser
Saheed Kapoor:
It's nice to read ur public blog, this link of your is really showing pain and stress that u faced in dat House....Somehow I also managed to watch 1 episode of urs ...poonam ji discussion wid u and abt ur family.
If I m nt wrong u said u hav no one in ur family and u don't want to discuss abt it!-this only shows ur confidence in urself ....also one cannot say nething lyk this without any hard feelings :(
gods' grace Amitji helped along...bt plsss do clear out the issues wid ur family....atleast wid ur mother..!
I bet she will feel great....
Vijay Gupta: hi
Posted on Thu, 19 Nov, 2009 Report abuseVijay Gupta: hi
Posted on Thu, 19 Nov, 2009 Report abuse
Sagar Sapna:
You said "Amitji restored peace between my mother and me'' Soo u have to manage all good and bad things.my best wishes with you.
(pankaj masih)
Shaikh Kamal:
NO one is bigger than a mother in the world..
Dear Sherlyn thanx for the eye opener
Jimmey Singh: heloo
Posted on Mon, 16 Nov, 2009 Report abuseSantosh Kumar: Ek acche insan(Amit ji) ki yahi pehchan hain............
Posted on Mon, 16 Nov, 2009 Report abuseRinku Kumar: hi
Posted on Sat, 14 Nov, 2009 Report abuseRinku Kumar: hi
Posted on Sat, 14 Nov, 2009 Report abuse
Sunder Thadani:
Hi Sherlyn Chopra, I am your fan from Mumbai.
You are a rare lively person, the kind of person, who motivates, and make him feel "wanted".
Best Wishes!
sunder.thadani at hotmail dot com
http://maninmumbai.ning.com/
Kunal Kumar: your hair style n big boss is very good. i like it really .
Posted on Fri, 13 Nov, 2009 Report abuse
Krishna Pai:
dear sherlyn,
you may be out of big boss but you have established place in hearts of all our people of India and abroad.
keep it up.
Sham Oni: also, question. can we buy any of the clothes you've worn? like via your site or something?
Posted on Thu, 12 Nov, 2009 Report abuse
Sham Oni:
what the fuck? that's all? we saw that shit from our TV sets! i am SO disappointed!
i always thought if i got hold of your blog, that I'd get to read what was going on between your ears in the show, cos u were such an introvert. u would share your experiences and innermost feeling, instead of giving us a highlight reel of the 3 weeks u were in the house. this sucked.
Sudipta Das:
Hey sherlyn,
Why do you again and again do these nasty bare all kind of stuff?
Shivani Bhardwaj: मैंने aapkee अमित जी ke साथ हुयी बात चीत big बॉस के सेट पर देखि थी और बिग बॉस भी शुरुआत से ही देख रहा हूँ बिग बॉस के घर मैं आपका जो व्यवहार सभी के साथ था वो वाकई खराब था न किसी से मिलना न मस्ती बस अपने आप मैं ही सिमटी सी रही आप और जब आपका नोमिनेशन हो गया तब आप ने अपने आप को थोडा सा सुधार ने की कोशिश करी जो बेकार थी हाँ aane अमित जी के साथ अपनी माँ से बात चित की वो वाकई अच्छी थी कियों की आपके वीच मैं जमी वर्फ कहीं हद तक पिघली और आपकी भावनाएं आसुयों के रास्ते बाहर आयी , माँ बाप कभी भी अपने बच्चों का बुरा नहीं सोचते मगर हमको उनकी बातें चुभती हैं कियों की वो हमारे बिपरीत होती हैं और परिस्थिति टाइम के साथ बदल जाती हैं , परन्तु आगे आप माँ से जरूर मिलती रहें
Posted on Tue, 10 Nov, 2009 Report abuse
Sudipta Das:
Thnks for changing my mind about you. I think , you are the most simple and sweet girl i have ever known. so, can you please add me as your brother and sent me some mail regarding this at -
sudiptagreat@yahoo.com
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