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Sach ka Saamna is not just a great concept for reality TV but also a great motto to follow in reality. Truth hurts. And truth also sets one free from the bondage of guilt, shame and reproach. I find truth very fascinating and intriguing.
I love the idea of embracing truth not just occasionally but on a regular basis. It helps me avoid unnecessary entanglements and gives me a clearer perspective of life ahead.------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
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Also, I truly truly believe that the best way to deal with the skeletons in our closets is to bring them out into the open (need not necessarily mean national television). When they are brought out into the light, their adverse effects on us begin to nullify. That is the beauty of unveiling pent up emotions and reaching out to one’s inner most core.
The pseudo intellectuals of our society strongly believe that a reality show like this is not meant for Indian society which is perceived to have conventional beliefs. I give a double thumbs up to the production team for bringing this ‘out of the box’ concept to India. After the first show, there were multiple reactions from various individuals from different walks of life. Some criticized the idea of speaking the truth on national television, as they feared the truth might jeopardize human relationships and disturb the peace and harmony within society. Some raised questions on the authenticity of the polygraph tests. Some said it was just another attempt to raise TRP ratings. Nothing more.
I truly applaud the concept of the show. It is more entertaining than other reality shows where individuals are required to perform tasks. And when they fail to sustain the viewers’ interests, they resort to catfights and mediocre attempts of titillation.
Wherever truth goes, controversy follows. I understand the repercussions of speaking the truth on national television. The consequences might be totally devastating. Nevertheless, I prefer speaking the truth and facing the heat that follows to living in a web of lies.
I’m not suggesting we speak the truth at all times and with everyone. Life would then become humourless and quite complicated. We as adults should have the discernment to distinguish between conviction and condemnation.
Truth that helps a person acknowledge his faults, weaknesses, shortcomings, character flaws is conviction. Truth that makes a person feel worthless causing deep shame, thereby leading to a very poor self-image is condemnation. I strongly believe we all need to be convicted on a day to day basis so that we become better and more loving human beings.
At the same time, one must avoid condemnation in every possible way as it spreads negativity. The bottom line is that I can choose to be truthful to my inner self or choose to lead a delusional life where there is deceit, lies, fabrication and eternal misery.
Dar ke aage sachh hai aur sachh ke aage Jeet !
Posted by Sherlyn Chopra in Celebrity blogs on Mon, 20 Jul, 2009
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Hareesh Raao:
i feel the stupid show is pre scripted. and as human beings all of us are entailed to privacy. you are a pseudo intellectual in not recognising the fact that the sach ka saamna is not there to prove something that is true or false but to make some money out of gross exploitation of emotions.
and btw i feel it is prescripted and it is clear
Naved Yarkhan: Avoidance of sin is lighter than the pain of remorse- Omar Farooq,Second Caliph of Islam
Posted on Mon, 05 Oct, 2009 Report abuseRajeev Bhatt: gud thought
Posted on Wed, 23 Sep, 2009 Report abusePradeep Kumar: Agar dar ke aage sach hai, to sach ke aage haqeekat hai.
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Devendra Khandelwa..:
सच अगर सही तरीके से बोला जय तो उसको स्वीकार करना मुश्किल है पैर नामुमकिन नहीं हमारे समाज में सच्बोलने को कहा तो जाता है लेकिन उसको स्वीकार करने का बड़ा दिल नहीं है.सच हमेशा कड़वा होता है यह सब जानते हेन्लेकिन स्वीकार करने में न हिचकिचाते हें
सच का सामना एक अनूठा प्रयास है लेकिन उसका प्रेसेन्ततिओन्थोद सुधर जय तो ठीक रहे. खास कर पर्सनल सेक्स के मामलों को लेकर ज्यादा उछाला नहीं जय.तब सभी स्वीकार कर लेंगे
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Posted on Thu, 20 Aug, 2009 Report abuseAsad Khan: U R ABSOLUTELY RITE
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Suresh Kaliyath:
how many people in this earth are telling the truth?
if you have a powerful tounge,you can twist your tounge and bring the wrongs to truth.
that's why some are qualified for it and their qualifications are for the liers.
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Posted on Wed, 19 Aug, 2009 Report abuseSahab Raj: हेल्लो sister
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Sanjib Ghosh:
Well this article is fine & I guess the so called intellectuals of our society who believe that a reality show like this is not meant for Indian society, do not have courage enough to face the after result of truth. If a person had the guts to do something then the person should also have the courage to admit it.
And finaly the choice is your's, if you want to open up or no. No one is forcing you to participate or watch the show. You like it you go for it & if you don't like it then good for you.
Sarvesh Dubey: A good thinking for struggle of life. If you always remember that you can never down.
Posted on Tue, 18 Aug, 2009 Report abuseRaju Dass: Things are never what it looks! If we appreciate the other's viewpoint, there is no harm in it. You are daring to accept the SACH but absolute SACH at times may be as harmful as JHOOTH. सत्यं ब्रुयात्,प्रियम् ब्रुयात,न ब्रुयात् सत्यंप्रियम् should also be referred to. I apreciate your views for taking a stand atleast rather being a diplomat
Posted on Tue, 18 Aug, 2009 Report abuseKaizhad Hyderabadw..: good keep it up..
Posted on Tue, 18 Aug, 2009 Report abuseMica Singh: wonderful
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Lokesh Jha: you are very godd friend
Posted on Mon, 17 Aug, 2009 Report abuseArun Gupta: it is right .
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Harish Dolas:
Well this article is fine & I guess the so called intellectuals of our society who believe that a reality show like this is not meant for Indian society, do not have courage enough to face the after result of truth. If a person had the guts to do something then the person should also have the courage to admit it.
And finaly the choice is your's, if you want to open up or no. No one is forcing you to participate or watch the show. You like it you go for it & if you don't like it then good for you.
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